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Vermont Family Court

Frequently Asked Questions


Windham District/Family Courthouse

Child Support
expand  My child's other parent and I are separating/divorcing and we are told that we will need to establish child support. How and why is this done?
expand  What happens if the paying parent fails to follow a child support order?
How to Enforce a Child Support Order:
Failure to follow a court order is a serious matter. If one parent stops making child support payments ordered by the court, or begins paying less than what the court ordered, the following options exist for enforcement:
 
The parent entitled to support can go back to the court that issued the order and file a Petition for Enforcement. (Ask the court clerk for Form #823, “Motion to Enforce.”) In some cases, where failure to pay has already been brought to the court's attention in the past, you can ask the court to find the other parent in contempt of court. The difference between enforcement and contempt is discussed below.
 
Rather than going back to court on your own, you can ask the Office of Child Support for assistance. 1-800-786-3214. Or go to website: www.osc.state.vt.us
 
   
 
expand  When can a child support order be changed?
Civil Union and Marriage Related Issues
expand  After the court has issued a Final Divorce Order can you make a change to it?
expand  How are decisions made in a Divorce?
Once the divorce has been started in the Family Court, decisions must be maderegarding parenting of children, support and what to do with property. Contrary topopular belief, judges rarely decide the difficult questions in the divorce. Most peopledo not like giving up their right to determine for themselves how to take care of theirchildren and how to divide up their property and income. Therefore, most cases areresolved by agreements made by the people involved rather than the judge.
 
In a contested hearing (trial), the parties present their case to a judge, never to ajury. Each spouse has a limited amount of time in which to present information. Thejudge follows rules (known as the Rules of Evidence,) that often limit the type of
information that may be presented. As a judge can never learn in a trial as muchabout a family and what is best for the children as the families know, people who let
the judge make the decisions are not always happy with the result.
 
   
 
expand  How do I dissolve my civil union?
expand  How do I prepare for a Contested Hearing on Property Division?
If you and your spouse cannot agree on how to divide all your property, you still mayhave some agreement, which you can put in writing and file with the court before thehearing. With personal property (cars, furniture etc.) you should write a list of whatyou cannot agree upon and what you believe the market value is for each item. Ifyou cannot agree on the market value of cars, boats, or other expensive property,
you may want to get an appraisal and bring the appraiser as a witness to thehearing.
 
You should prepare what you want to tell to the judge in the same manner as thefactors identified above, starting with how many years you have been married, yourage and health etc. You should bring documentation to court that shows the value ofthe property, such as your house appraisal, bank statements, pension or retirementor other investment statements. You should also bring documentation about the
debts on the property and other debts from your marriage.
 
   
 
expand  How does being in the military affect the court process and court orders?
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Guardian Ad Litem
expand  Can GAL's attend any DCF Training?
expand  Can GAL's attend PRIDE training for Foster Parents?
Yes GAL's may attend PRIDE training for Foster Parents.  To view the training schedule go to the Vermont Foster Parents link on the Resource list on the GAL webpage.
   
 
expand  Do GALs receive compensation?
expand  How long a commitment does the GAL Program expect from GALs?
This is a longer term volunteer commitment as some court cases involving children may take up to two years.
 
   
 
expand  I am currently employed. Am I still allowed to join the GAL Program?
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Juvenile
expand  How should I work with my lawyer?
expand  What are my rights and responsibilities?
The rights of parents/legal custodian and of children:
 
To have your position presented to the judge.
 
To be represented by a lawyer. All parties in a juvenile case have a right to be represented by a lawyer. The Court will ordinarily appoint a lawyer to represent the juvenile. The child's lawyer is usually a public defender.  The lawyer should explain what is going on and should speak with you before court hearings.
 
To be treated in a respectful manner by all parties in court.
 
To be notified of court hearings related to your case.
 
To have your questions answered.
 
The responsibilities of parents/legal custodians and children.
 
To attend and participate in all the hearings in your case, unless your lawyer tells you not to.
 
To always be polite in court.
 
To let the Court and your lawyer know how you can be reached.
 
To follow the case plan. This may include following through with evaluation, counseling, parenting education, substance abuse treatment, juvenile probation, community service restitution, school attendance, etc.
 
To work with your lawyer. Many people never worked with a lawyer before they became involved with Family Court. Sometimes you do not have the opportunity to meet with your lawyer until shortly before the hearing. Prepare by thinking through what you want to happen. Your lawyer works for you.
   
 
expand  What are the courtroom guidelines?
expand  What is Juvenile Court?
There are two reasons why families find themselves in juvenile court:
 
1) A child may be in need of care or supervision. The court calls this type of case “CHINS.” This means the child may have been abandoned or abused by the parents or custodian; or is without proper parental care, education, medical or other care necessary for the child's well-being; or is without or beyond the control of the parent or custodian; or is truant from school.
 
2) A child may have committed a delinquent act. The court calls this type of case a delinquency. A delinquent act is one that would be a crime if committed by adult.
 
 All juvenile court proceedings are CONFIDENTIAL. The public does not have access to juvenile court files or juvenile court hearings.
 
   
 
expand  What should I know about the Juvenile Hearings?
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Mediation
expand  Can I Still Have an Attorney?
expand  How do you start the Mediation Process?
To start the Mediation Process read the Mediation Process located under information onthis page.
   
 
expand  How Does Mediation Differ from Counseling or Therapy?
expand  How Does Mediation Differ from Going to Court?
Separating parents often desire a fair and cooperative solution, one without the financial and emotional cost of a contested hearing.
Mediation is a voluntary and private means of resolving the issues of separation and divorce.
It is a less formal process than public Family Court hearings.
Mediators can spend more time with you both and may produce documents that contain more detail than the staff at Family Court.
The end result of the mediation sessions is a written document that clearly defines and outlines the agreements the two of you have reached.
 
   
 
expand  How Long Does it Take and what is the Cost?
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Parentage
expand  How do I change parental rights and responsibilities (once known as "custody") if I was divorced in another state?
expand  If my child's father and I were not married is he legally the father?
No.  You will need to establish parentage.  Which is the process of legally establishing whom the father of a child is if the child's parents are not married. If the parents are married when the child is born, the law recognizes them as the legal parents.
The law assumes that the mother is the biological parent of the child, but even if the mother and father are living together or if the father's name is on the birth certificate, Vermont law does not recognize him as the father until a court has legally established his paternity.
 
   
 
expand  What are the two major parts to parental rights and responsibilties?
expand  What does Parent Child contact mean?
Parent child contact is the term used to describe what has been known in the past as“visitation.” Visitation is no longer used because of the negative impact it can haveon children. Children are dependent on the love and support of both of their parentsto grow and develop into healthy adults. Children do not visit with one of theirparents. They spend as much quality time as possible with each parent.
 
Children need to be able to spend as much time as possible with each of theirparents. When parents separate, their children should not be denied the opportunityto spend quality time with each of their parents. If the parents had remainedtogether, the children would have enjoyed access to each parent on a daily basis.Therefore, unless there are good reasons to limit the contact a parent has with the
children, the parenting plan should include contact with both parents on a regularbasis.
 
The ending of a relationship is often very emotional. Parents may be angry at oneanother over broken commitments and feelings of being deceived and cheated.Children who are exposed to their parents' arguments often blame themselves forthe fights of their parents. Sometimes the children feel they have to pick "sides"between their parents. Parents need to be particularity sensitive to their children and
keep them out of their adult conflicts. Unless physical or emotional abuse is involved,the reasons people have for ending their relationships are not reasons for children to
change their relationship with their parents.
 
   
 
expand  What is Parental Rights and Responsibilities?

Parental Rights and Responsibilities
expand   What are Parent Coordinators
expand   What does Parent Coordination sort out?
Parent Coordination helps parents work out issues such as: visitation and exchanges, health and safety issues, how decisions will be made for the children, how parents will communicate, etc.
 
   
 
expand   What if the parents are not able to come to an agreement?
expand   What is Parent Coordination?
Parent Coordination gives both parents and children a chance to be heard in a child-focused, non-confidential and non-neutral process. Separated parents meeting individually with the Parent Coordinator are encouraged to resolve the conflicts about their children.  The goal of the process is to minimize the children’s exposure to adult conflict and to reduce the risk of danger to all family members. Parent Coordinators also assist parents and children to connect with other resources in the community for help and support.
 
   
 
expand   What is the Parent Coordinators and Court's Role?